Serious Rant

[UK Motorcycle Forum Member]

should i pass my test and join in?

YES! Even though there are enough biking wenches on this site already don't suppose one extra will hurt!

your right your not a brave man 

[UK Motorcycle Forum Member]

should i pass my test and join in?

YES! Even though there are enough biking wenches on this site already don't suppose one extra will hurt!

your right your not a brave man 

I'm a brave man.... And I'll say it! Its simple, just have an affair!! LOL

[UK Motorcycle Forum Member]

yo dhd, keep guessing dude

thanks red for the encouragement but know this. the next question will be what bike do i buy? xxx

[UK Motorcycle Forum Member]

yo dhd, keep guessing dude

thanks red for the encouragement but know this. the next question will be what bike do i buy? xxx

oh god don't ask me - my knowledge is i have a white one and a blue one. all technical questions are referred to the dear heart. when ya ready i will ask him. he is a bike instructor and has 6 bikes at the moment so knows about these things 
or Fuzzy bum is ya man [Fuzzrr] he is well helpful and encouraging

chin up babe xxxxxxxxxxx

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ok im new on here and have joined cos ive become left out due to my partners new love, yes the bike! i encouraged it at first and even gave hm money towards it but have felt more and more left out as time goes on. he seems more and more interested in one particular female biker. i am worried cos he doesnt even ask me to go out with him on it anymore. hes changed because we used to be a really tight unit but now he is even being horrid to my kids. after 10 yrs that hurts. ive just bought him some winter kit cos i really want him to be warm safe and enjoying himself. he offered to sell the bike cos it was causing problems but i said no way cos i really love to see him enjoying himself. so its really not a man thing. i am gutted. any ideas guys. ps. all you lovely leather clad lovelies can seem like competition. should i pass my test and join in?

is everybody racking thier brains trying to figure out who's in deep shit ?

well if it's real then it's not you DHD as you either travel in a crowd or scoot off covering hundreds of miles by yourself

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Thanks everyone for your replies. I felt better just for ranting.

I know it must be tough for him seeing me change from wife and mother to daring biker but I view the changes in me as a good thing. And that's why we are butting heads as there us absolutely nothing wrong with what I'm doing and his insecurities are his problem not mine. But then that's the selfish attitude I've apparently developed talking

I think I'll make a massive effort to be  supermum/wife all of the time, cut down on my Internet time and make him feel important so I can still have my 6 hours or so a week on the bike. Trouble is I'm too tired to even keeps my eyes open past 9pm as I've a full time job a full load of housework with a 9 month old baby and a 4 year old!!!

Biking means way to much to me to give it up so I'll be propping my eyes open with cocktail sticks every night. And if he's still not happy I'll bomb him as fuzzrr mentioned.

And men moan us women are high maintenance!!!! I'm sick of massaging his ego!

Anyway thanks all for calming me down xx

so from what i know about women ,you mean exactly the opposite to what you just said and are selling the bike ?  

you know a lot then  the opposite will be to stop massaging his ego..

ah silly me i forgot that the womens defenition of opposite isnt necessarily always the same as everybody elses defenition depending on the situation 

The definition is irrelevant, just remember the woman is always right, even if she says she's wrong she is still right but just appeasing you!!!

I did get revenge on the xbox last night too. He was playing call of duty on line so I went to bed, logged into the router on my phone and kept resetting it so he lost Internet connection every 3 minutes. He was swearing like mad unable to figure out what was up with it

Spoilt his fun didn't it and yes I know it was childish but satisfying!

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I did get revenge on the xbox last night too. He was playing call of duty on line so I went to bed, logged into the router on my phone and kept resetting it so he lost Internet connection every 3 minutes. He was swearing like mad unable to figure out what was up with it

Spoilt his fun didn't it and yes I know it was childish but satisfying!

 

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yknow the strange thing is i trust him implicitly no matter how gorgeous the leather clad lovely is. i think its just that for years we did everything together. til he got the bike that is. and its so bloody uncomfortable on the back cos its a sports bike. moan moan moan. loved the thing about the x box. wish i was that innovative. cheers guys for the input. got a works do coming up so i think i wil tart myself up and go and get mullered. ego massage is always good  xxggxx

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I would just add up pros and cons of keeping a guy around..especially one who felt that the little woman shouldnt have a life. whether it be a bike,  college or friends
If you need him keep him.
I know what I would do (and have done)